If it’s loneliness that you’re feeling, is it really going to go away if you have someone who you’re with just because? Whether physically and/or emotionally? At the very essence, wouldn’t you still be alone? If you’re not ‘whole’ to begin with, how is someone else going to fill that void and make you completely happy? You have to be complete to begin with to make the relationship last anyway, I would think?
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